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Featured In: Essence Magazine

Featured In: Essence Magazine

I never imagined that I'd actually be in Essence Magazine, or any magazine for that matter. I mean is this even real life? As a kid, I dreamed of working for a magazine and maybe, I occasionally dreamt of being in Seventeen Magazine because of my groundbreaking role on High School Musical (I had a colorful imagination.) But I sure as hell did not expect to be in a magazine before working for one, the latter seemed more plausible. 

What makes this amazing experience even more gratifying was the opportunity to represent Nigeria. I really wish I could go back in time and tell 10-year-old me that the gele (head tie) you're embarrass to see your mom wear to your school events is what you'll be rocking in the August 2017 issue of Essence Magazine. When I was younger, I wanted to be as "American" as possible, which was ridiculous because I am an American (born and raised in New York). I was embarrass of my name and often wished it was something simpler like Olivia (no offense to the Olivia's out there.) When you turned on the TV in the 90s/ early 00s, Africa wasn't a luxury place. It was the place of great poverty, the place where animals run wild and civilization barely exists. Can you blame a kid who does want to proudly claim a place like that? 

But then came college, where I wasn't the only Nigerian. I met people from various countries in Africa and they were all beautiful, intelligent and leaders in their communities. The way they exude such pride for their respective countries was inspiring and hooting and hollering when the DJ says, "Where my Nigerians at?" became liberating. I am Nigerian. Today, Nigerians are everywhere. They are represented in all aspects of media: movies, music and television. Jidenna, Wale, Wizkid, John Boyega, Dayo Okeniyi and Yvonne Orji (to name a few) are all prominent figures in their respective fields who proudly represents Nigeria. Anytime I see a Nigerian name (any African really) on TV I get so excited. The pride I have in my Nigerian heritage is constantly growing and wearing that crown in Essence Magazine will only elevate that. 

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